Research Associate Professor, NUS Medicine
Advancing the science of early relationships, child development, and well-being.
New Release
A Taste of the Book
Raising Confidently Curious Kids offers an empowering, research-based parenting framework grounded in developmental science and neuroscience. Drawing on decades of research and her own experience as both scientist and mother, Anne distils complex findings into accessible insights that help caregivers navigate the real-life joys and trade-offs of raising children. At the heart of the book is the concept of "net positive parenting" — where the goal is not perfection, but fostering an overall balance of security and exploratory freedom.
Through relatable stories, practical worksheets, and a culturally sensitive approach, the book guides parents in recognising children's needs for both comfort and independence — and in responding in ways that nurture resilience, confidence, and curiosity. Rather than offering one-size-fits-all solutions, it helps readers understand their unique child's temperament and their own parenting strengths. Whether navigating preschool transitions, sleep routines, or emotional outbursts, parents will learn how to foster relationships that support both psychological well-being and brain development — raising children who feel safe, understood, and ready to thrive in a complex world.
Anne Rifkin-Graboi, PhD, is a Research Associate Professor at the Yong Loo Lin School of Medicine, National University of Singapore. Based in Singapore for nearly two decades, she has built her career across research institutes and universities in the region while examining how early parent–child relationships shape children's brain development, emotional security, learning, and resilience. She earned her doctorate at the University of California, Berkeley, where she trained under pioneering attachment researcher Mary Main, and later held a research fellowship at Harvard Medical School. Today, Anne leads large-scale research in Singapore examining how early relationships influence children's mental and physical health.
Anne is passionate about translating rigorous science into accessible information that empowers families to make informed decisions in their everyday lives. Ultimately, Anne hopes her work helps families find greater joy, security, and discovery in their relationships with their children.
Academic Work
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Free Resources
An interactive companion app to the book — explore activities, games, and science-backed tools designed to nurture curiosity in the early years.
Open App ↗Printable worksheets and reflection guides to accompany Raising Confidently Curious Kids — helping you put the research into practice.
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