Books & Contributions

"Raising Confidently Curious Kids provides an academically rich exploration of the important ways we as parents can provide the key elements of our children being seen, soothed and safe so that they develop the security needed for resilience in their lives ahead. Filled with illustrative stories and research-based insights into the biology of our important attachment relationships, this helpful guide and its companion workbook remind us how to show up for our kids and prepare them with the kind of nurturing connections that will help them thrive!"

"Raising Confidently Curious Kids is a deeply thoughtful and inspiring book. Drawing on the richness of neurobiology and attachment theory, it gently guides parents toward a clearer understanding of what their children truly need to feel safe, seen, and free to explore the world around them. Professor Anne Rifkin-Graboi writes with both insight and compassion, bringing the science of parenting to life through relatable and moving examples. She shows that it is the quality of our relationships with our children that nurtures their confidence and curiosity. The accompanying workbook beautifully extends the book's message — creating a space for parents to reflect on their parenting experiences, deepen their understanding of their child's individuality and set thoughtful, purposeful goals. Together, this brilliant book and its companion workbook are a must-read for parents, clinicians, educators and students alike."

"As an elementary school counselor, I see every day what happens when children don't feel both securely loved and freely curious and the magic that is possible when they do. Dr. Rifkin-Graboi's Raising Confidently Curious Kids gives parents something I wish I could hand out at every kindergarten orientation: a genuinely research-grounded framework that respects parents' intelligence and their exhaustion in equal measure. The twin focus on security and discovery mirrors what we know works in schools, and the SAGES checklist is the kind of in-the-moment tool that actually helps on a hard Tuesday afternoon. I especially appreciate that this book lets parents off the hook from perfection while still giving them the science to make thoughtful choices. A warm, honest, and deeply useful read for parents all over."

"Raising Confidently Curious Kids is a thoughtful and enjoyable read that offers parents valuable insights and practical guidance for supporting their children's development. While emphasizing the importance of caregiving relationships, the book carefully supports parents in thinking flexibly about trade-offs and individual differences."

"In Raising Confidently Curious Kids, Dr. Anne Rifkin-Graboi translates research on parenting and child development into clear, practical guidance for parents. She thoughtfully integrates anecdotes and stories, creating a relatable guide in which many parents can see themselves. Throughout, she pairs strong scientific expertise with a deep respect for both parents and children. I recommend this book for any parent who wants a companion during their parenthood journey."

"This is a thoughtful and deeply grounded book, emphasizing the child's need for both security and exploration and how we can support them as parents on their journey. Drawing on attachment theory while remaining deeply accessible, Dr. Rifkin-Graboi offers a framework that helps parents be sensitive to their child's signals and respond accordingly. I also love how the book is interactive, allowing parents to share their thoughts regarding each chapter through a series of questions from the author. This book is not just about child development, but really about the parent–child relationship."

"Children are precious to all families — they represent our dreams and hopes and they shape the future of our population. But raising kids today can be challenging given the competing demands and changing societal landscape. How can parents know how to get it right? Rifkin-Graboi's book provides helpful insights garnered from her years of studying and understanding caregiving and maternal child relationships, and structured tips for parents to nurture children with confidence and wonder for the world."